BitchAssNess...Why are the men in this generation so..SCARY

I ranted yesterday on twitter about men not acting like men. This was following an argument I had at a local dive with a dude over a seat. I was sitting next to a dude I know when he comes over hating and asked me to move over. I said I really prefer my seat but if he needs one to take the empty chair next to me. He started calling me out my name, calling me a fake ass bitch blah blah blah. I called him a ugly screw face bastard. It got really ugly, I mean him threatening me with violence and what not. Eventually, the lady in me came back out and I pretty much let him go on and on arguing about what he was going to do me with himself. The most weird part was that I was there with a good guy friend (platonic) and he was just standing there like O_O. He said NOTHING to the dude. No, I didn't expect for him to fight ole boy or nothing, but just step in as a man and be like "my man..its not that serious.." or something ANYTHING. Instead, he hit me up the next day and said "Man, you didn't have to go on ole boy like that..if you would have just moved down for him he wouldn't have cussed you out"

*In the voice of scooby doo* ERRRUURRRHHH

I couldn't believe it. He was basically condoning ole boy's cussing me out. I was offended. Point blank, I thought it was a bit punkish.

This led to me creating a twit rant topic regarding bitch azz punk men. I got a few responses, but one really baffled me. Dude said that if he saw a woman getting beat by a man he would NOT assist.

*pause*

WOW...what kinda men are we breeding now. What kinda man would say he would just walk on by or keep walking if he saw a man kicking the living shyt out of a woman. (He also asked would I help a man if a woman was beating him..I know ..STUPID SHYT..FUCKTARD men and women are not = physically.....bet you same dude imposes wack double standards on women..but I digress with his azz there)

The same kind that breeds men who would watch a girl getting gang raped.

The same kind that breeds men that would stand by and watch another boy get jumped and beat to death.

The same kind that breeds men that would run a train on a vulnerable attention starved girl.

Have we become so much of a separatist society that we would truly stand by and watch people getting violated and assaulted and not do nothing? Not even call the police? NOTHING?

Are our men just becoming scarier and scarier, and if so, what are the reasons?

1. Lack of a strong male figure in the household? Women cannot raise men, sure they can do their best, but only a MAN can teach a boy how to be a MAN. I am starting to see the effects of not having a real man in a boys life. The effects BITCH AZZ MEN who run scared like women when in a hostile situation.

2. Could it be that men are moving away from the blue collar and more towards being more bougie the white collar? Yes I am talking about Black men because thats who I relate to, but this question can apply to anyone. Could it be that we are more used to being catered to, not really having to get down the nitty gritty of hard work and labor? Used to things just coming easy for us? We don't want to get our feet wet, our nose dirty, our suit wrinkled?

3. Perhaps our men are just too damn prissy. Getting pedicures and manicures. Used to be only little Richard wannabees would be all up in the nail and hair salon. Now you got grown as men getting their eyebrows tweezed. Perhaps they don't want to end up in a scuffle because they don't want to break a nail or mess up their pretty face.

I remember reading OneChelle's Blog, Black n' Bougie, and how she talked about needing a man for protection, well OneChelle, lemme tell ya, the way its looking, we are better off protecting ourselves. Cuz men nowadays are just as bitch made as the next one.